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What can I say, I was out taking care of my sick mother and this woman at my husbands job became friendly with him. She claimed she did not get involved with married men. Yah right. She offered him a room to rent in exchange for doing work around her home. Well I trusted him until things started happening. Well I am very sick and this ------ began conviencing F. that I was faking all of it. He was tring to come home and she tried to commit suside 3 different times, and she has pulled a gun on him. The shock came when he spent the night with me in the emergency room and she accused him of sleeping with me. That was all it took for him to do as she demanded and file for a divorce. I was in the hospital for 8 days and while I was there she took out a harrasment order on me and piggy backed F on hers so a order of protection was taken out so F and I could not be near each other. She has kept him from our children and grandchildren. Our grandson is autistic and has had alot of abandonment issues. His grandfather promised him he would never leave, Yet what did he do? For Fathers day the grandchildren sent him a Fathers Day package, guess what he refused it and had it sent back to them. This woman devil in disguise has ruined a Great Husband, Father and Grandfather. But as the saying goes,"What goes around comes around" T will get hers someday. F will discover just what she really is. But unfortunatly after he has lost his family. We have been married for 29 years. I thought we were solid as a rock. Ya never know.

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This is about a soulless, nut job called Cindy Faith... don't let that last name fool ya, there is no faith there! Claimed she was on the pill in Jan 1987 when we met in Chincoteague, but she was preg a month later. We married in May 1987 and had baby Oct 1987. Another baby born in Sept 1989 that she said was mine. In May 1991 she said she wanted a divorce but was remarried Nov/Dec 1991. That man beat the hell out of my first child (doctor's report), social services called it 'play. She left that man and moved on to another man, the children wrote me letters about that guy hitting them. Once I was 2 years away from having finished my child support obligation, she had another baby and another husband. See the pattern?! Cindy Faith in Chincoteague, Virginia, has no conscience. I have a forged gov't check from her, forged medical documents, false claims in letters from her, and lots more crap I would love to share with anyone! Stay away from the devil!

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Her name is Nicole Martinez and she is a huge bitch. She cheated on me just because I would not let her quite her job. All she wanted to do was stay home and get fat. She spends money like crazy. There was still so much for us to do in our lives. I did not think it was the right time for her not to have a job. She left her anyway and we hit some hard times financially. She then tells me that I am not a man because she cant stay home and get fat. That all "men" should be able to support their family without the wife working. What a bitch!!! She ends up leaving me two weeks later. It has been months since our seperation and she has wanted me back, so she says, after about a month of dating dork after dork. But in that month this bitch has sex with a guy on my softball team then jacks off another in front of a bar while people are watching. Long story short after months and months of her telling me she has changed I do get back together with her. I move my stuff in to her apartment which she begged me to on a Sunday and then she tells me she wants me to move out the following Tuesday because some fag she dating was promising to buy her a car and take her to New York. That Monday she told me that she was 100% into our relationship. Nicole Martinez is a liar and every man alive needs to stay away. You might get an STD.

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Kristin Kowalczyk, Beware this girl is nuts my friends and is from the Metro-Detroit, Michigan area. Not only will she try to take all your money buy she loves to play the victim. Everyone is crazy she will say. She will push blame onto everyone else and make others look bad when in fact it is really her who is the insane one. This person has kids and she can't take care of them at all which of course is not her fault according to them. The funny thing here is that she works for a michigan hospital and u would think she would be making great money, but that is not the case and even so she would much rather us ur money then her own. further more she is not what she appears to be other then the money issue. She also may have a std becasue the last guy she was with that i know of has found to have HIV so guys please watch out for her. she is abusive and will puch the blame on you and will lie to u about being raped just to get attention and sympathy which is all of course untrue stories. yes i said abusive, she has kids and this chick will come at u like no other. she will throw things at ur head and she will often push and shove u to try to get a rise out of u. DO NOT DATE THIS CHICK I REPEAT DO NOT DATE HER.

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I was married for 9 years together with my ex for 11 years. I found out about 5 years into my marriage that my ex had a fetish for really large women, and by large I mean 300 pounds or more. Then I find out he had been chatting with other women online and looking at porn online. I think he had been doing this our entire marriage. Then I found out he wrote 2000 dollars in bad checks, which his mother ends up paying for. Then he started taking money out of my account which did not have his name on it. He had stole my ATM card. Turns out my ex is a compulsive liar. He had been cheating on me as well and telling other women he was single and did not have any kids. He quit going to work. He was in and out of jobs. I thought it had stopped until 2006, when I found out about several other women. Some were in the area and others were hours away. He got hurt at work and I went to pick him up at the hospital and he starts acting wierd and texting someone on his phone. Come to find out it was another women. Well they had been having an affair and he fed her all kinds of BS about me. I then kick him out and he kept lying saying they were just friends nothing more, until she ends up pregnant. He files for divorce and makes me out to be some psychotic person, which really upset me. We had been renting a house from his mother which she evicts me and my kids from in the middle of a snow storm. So I was forced to move with my kids and animals and everything we owned. Luckily I was able to purchase a new home all by myself. Him and his gf end up having the baby which he lied about. The kids we have together have not met the new baby and she is now 6 months old. My ex did the same exact thing to the babies mother that he did to me, which I thought was funny cause it is just desserts, lol. He has not saw the baby since she was 3 months old. He is fighting me in court about custody which I finally one, but now he is fighting the child support. This should be done by the end of this month, I hope so. He is a total loser who does not want to take care of his responsibilities.

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man...im jus waitin for things to look up. i jus found out two days ago that i had to move out of my house. I'm livin on post and i thought i would be able to stay here until my divorce was finalized. apparently i was wrong. my soon to be ex called and said that i had to leave in 30 days. he said they found out that he wasnt stayin here so technically i was livin here illegally.....whatever. he apologized like he had nothing to do with it...but idk...cuz i know hes been complainin about him not havin any money cuz of me...so who knows...maybe hes the reason y i gotta go. so i got less than a month to find a place, pack all my shit, and go. sigh...man this fuckin blows. and where i work at is under the table so i dont have proof of income but hopefully ill b able to sweet talk my way into something. Lord please help me. this divorce keeps fuckin me over and over again in the ass. other than this whole moving situation life was pretty good. met a few ppl....got a lil tlc, saved up money and was doing much better than most ppl that would b in my shoes. i jus pray things get better, and things start lookin up. i know once everything is out of his name things will b. he's got the upper hand in most cases which sucks ass but it wont b like that for long.

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I think my life really started to take off after my divorce. I had become a married woman and surrogate mother while still in my teens. On the whole my marriage was not a bad one but it happened when we were far too young. At first I was eager to be the good little wife and he was comfortable with someone taking the place of his mum, the excitement slowly draining away from our existence. Being together was becoming a strain and neither of us were prepared for every evening and weekend spent together. I felt abandoned while he went to footie or the pub with his mates and I pottered around the house doing washing and laundry. The thought of doing housework himself was alien to my other half which got under my skin but what pissed me off was when, while eating a meal I had cooked, he said he would ask his mum to help me the next time I made steak pie. I can assure you that he came perilously close to having his face pushed into the steaming hot gravy. The attention lavished upon me when we were dating and first married wained and at some point stopped. I too fell in to a negligent state and as we grew apart, turned to contempt. Occasionally we would have periods where we would "work at it" but after about two and a half years, the marriage was pronounced dead and neither of us were mourning. The plain truth is, we married far too young. It's a mistake I try to get young couples not to make. Not because I'm a sad, bitter man hater who thinks marriage is an oppressive institution but because I think we should experience some life first. Getting married before the age of 27 is a bad idea generally. These days we are all so much more cosmopolitan. You can travel pretty much anywhere easily, experience other cultures and also other people. Each of us needs to grow in our own life rich fertiliser and it takes a good few years to do that. I advocate living together as a prelude to marriage. It prepares you for your potential spouse, warts and all, but without the legal, spiritual and moral promises having to be made. There is a get out clause should you need it. Marriage is a sacred thing and should be treated with some reverence so living together before hand can be considered "due diligence". The point at which I felt it was over was at a party. I had been catching up with an old friend from school for some time and had become separated from my husband who had spotted a couple of buddies and went over to exchange dirty joke or what ever boys do. Making a polite excuse of having to mingle I went off to refill my glass and that is when I saw my husband chatting with another woman in the group he was with. It shouldn't matter if he spoke to other women but it was the body language. I could tell he fancied her but also that she fancied him. What was really freaky was I didn't feel in the slightest bit jealous. If he sneaked off and screwed her I would have killed him. The betrayal would have cut me to the quick but if he said "I'm going give this girl a ride home. Would you mind if I stay and have sex with her?". I think would have told him to go ahead. I had always fantasised about others. We all do, it's natural and it can be an easy way of adding a little spice to love making but the thought of an affair was out. I just wouldn't do it but I did start to flirt a little more. Without going into the details we decided to divorce. Both felt the same way and I think he had someone else in mind anyway. He may have been having a bit on the side, I not sure but I'd like to think we had both remained faithful to the marriage until the end. That is probably the healthiest way to think of it and we are still friends but without sounding smug I think I got out while the going was good. Too much beer and sitting around watching sport on TV and not partaking in it has caused him to balloon. His chest looked considerably smaller than his waist and his looks have gone. In fact he seems to be an old man before his time.

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My heart is breaking! My ex just picked up the kids and every time he comes, my daughter tries to get away from him and screams as he puts her in the van and drives away. There is very little that will squeeze the joy out of my day quite as quickly as that scene. And worse, it happens every second Friday. How can I possibly bear to see that? It truly kills part of me every time. =(

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I'm very upset right now, just got a call from my sister who is going through the worst divorce ever... its been almost two years and still no resolution... finally it will be going to court in July but right now she just called cause she has a major problem. She is still very friendly with her exes mom, she is dying, old and quite a lovely lady whom her son treats like shit. My sister wants to take her kids to visit before its too late however because she is in the exes house and he won't sign the settlement papers she is in danger of having him break in while she is away with the kids and tossing her stuff out on the street which he is legally entitled to do (fuckers... law sucks mainly because the house is in his name) anyway I digress, her kids, 9 & 11 accidentially said they were going to see their uma this weekend and then their uma called her son (the ex) and now he knows, he dropped her kids off home yesterday really snidely saying "When are you going to LEAVE MY HOUSE over and over again until he got smug and said I want you out of my house! So now she is faced with the fact she can't take her kids to their uma's this weekend or she will literally be out on the street! including her belongings... the awful part is that she can't do anything about it. I told her to find a friend with a boyfriend, have them stay the whole weekend and use jher car with at least ONE of them there at all times, they are to call the polics should the ex front up and then call her... but somehow it doesn't seem right so I told her if she can't find someone who is willing to be pulled in to this shit fight she will have to cancel her trip altogether and reorganise without telling anyone including her kids... which is holding the truth back and creating white lies to make it happen (sorry for spelling, I'm upset) because she lives over 3 thousand miles away I can't help her.... at all.... it feels terrible but I want my sister near to me, or vice versa... but its not going to happen.... she wants to move close to me too but can't until her kids are legally heard in court... then there is the court case of which instead of agreeing to taking 52% to get settlement done (over 5 months ago) she's going for the lot, full custody, 65% and half his super (legal fees will rise to over $40k) so its going to get worse before it gets better I just feel so hopeless you know... She was in tears.... she's upset because she loves Uma, so do her kids and Uma isn't long for this world... why she kept asking why is he being such a shit head about it! I don't know, he's angry, hurt, emotionally immature and more concerning he doesn't give a shit about his kids.... aggghhhhh I hate this... Someone give me a magic pill to make it so that I can be there to help her out rather than so far away and so damn helpless...!

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What do you do when the one who told you he was done cheating is still at it? What do you do when your partner is talking with someone else the way he used to talk with you? "Husband" is cheating on me again. Gee - what a surprise. Once a cheater, always a cheater. I know I shouldn't be surprised but part of me is. I told him that if he wants to go out to just go. He's more than welcome to party all night like he's single again without any thought to the one he's leaving behind. *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* I'm SOOOO FUCKING SORRY I want to spend time with you. I'm so DAMN sorry it's such an inconvenience for you that you can't slut around like the man-ho you wish you could be. I'm sorry I'm not GOOD ENOUGH for you anymore. I'm sorry I just don't cut it. I'm sorry I still love you knowing that you don't love me back. I'm SOOOO DAMN SORRY that you're still the center of my universe. *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* I quit. If he wants out THAT damn bad he can just go. If he's THAT miserable, he's free. I'm done trying to convince him that it's worth it to stay. I know I'm stubborn and hard to live with. He knew that when we were dating. He knew that when we got married. Why the fuck is it a shock now after 6 years?!

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Well, well, well ... married less than three years, divorced for over four and still bitter as hell!!!! You may have read in one of my previous posts that my ex-husband has been telling any parent who will listen that my "boyfriend" ... oh, he missed the news months and months ago as it it my "ex-boyfriend" but nevertheless, he has been telling other parents in our school district that I date a "coke head". Again, I don't want to get into it here, but I don't use drugs and they are not allowed in my house and my ex of all people should have known that. So, I finally got through to him via e-mail ... just a note which I actually read and re-read off and on for 48 hours until I put on the final edits and sent it. My focus was not defamation of character though that certainly is an issue to. My focus was on how his "gossip" may be talked about by some of these parents, overheard by their kids, and passed on to our daughter who would then be hurt. Well, you saw the quotes ... his exact response! Guess he didn't understand how our daughter could be affected! And no, I did not reply ... if I had it probably would have read, "Get some counseling and if you need me to pay for a hooker to relieve some of your stress and anxiety I'm more than willing!!!!" LOL!

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I spoke to my Dad about the issues with my ex-husband. My parents also got divorced (after I did) and my Mom made most of the money. My Dad to this day is disgusted with my ex though as am I ... my Dad did not ask for alimony, any of my mom's 401k or anything ... he even let her keep the house and helped pay down some of their credit cards (though that was debt she of course had created). So, he had the best one ... he has offered to loan me the money for my back child support payments (though he truly doesn't have much either) but he agrees that I can't trust him and he is likely to deny any verbal agreement which means bad things could happen to me ... losing my house, jail ... who knows how far he'd go. My Dad cracked me up though when he told me what he'd love to write on the check ... "Use this to buy a set of balls"!!!!! As frustrated as I am right now, I am going to see the Court Facilitator this afternoon so I can figure out how to file (without hiring an attorney and spending money I don't have). Pay him off so I'm clean and then serve him papers, you know? But God, there are so many things I would like to be able to say ... Get a life! Pull up your skirt! Go see a counselor! Why don't you try dating and moving on already? And, I have seriously (yes, I know I'm nuts) but I have seriously considered hiring a hooker and sending her to his house when I have our daughter ... maybe if he got laid again it would relieve some of the tension and negative energy!!! My Dad asked me if I would hire a woman or a man though ... that of course led me to hysterics ... My brother is gay and when he came out to me I was very supportive - I could care less frankly as long as he's happy. My ex however freaked out at the time, "Remind me not to ever change in front of your brother again." My brother has better taste than I do, he never would have checked my ex out!!! So yes, I was in hysterics, thinking about him being tied down by some large man and punished!!!!! Okay, other than the fact that I'm having to take part of the day off to deal with this crap, I feel much better just venting and moving on with things ...

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I don't know what to do anymore ... I guess I'm somewhere between concern for my oldest daughter, depression, and total anger at the moment. If any of you read my post back along about my ex-husband telling other parents that I was dating a cocaine addict and making it sound as if I am holed up in my house doing lines all the time or something, then you have the most recent background. Hell, I hardly know anyone who's never tried cocaine - well, anyone other than myself that is. And if I didn't experiment in high school or college it's just not going to happen - I am in my mid 30's now - hell he even knows (or knew) that my only vice is alcohol occasionally ... oh and my writing and exercise of course. Anyway, so the e-mail I sent him to try to point out the fact that our daughter could be hurt by the rumors he spreads obviously blew up. I knew it could but I was hoping that an e-mail would cause him to think about things and be less volatile than if I'd tried having a discussion ... we honestly cannot talk. His response was "You have no morals! I don't care what you think!!!" So now, weeks later, it's getting worse. We separated before our daughter started kindergarten. Any time that school photos or any other important event fell on his day with her, I always got to go to his house and help her pick out her clothes and do her hair. He at least tried to leave his issues with me aside for her but now he won't. School photos are tomorrow morning and of course it's his night with her. When I asked her if she wanted me to come do her hair, she acted a bit strange, like she didn't want to answer my question. So, I asked him. "I can do her hair. You put our daughter in danger and you are not allowed in my house!" he said angrily. I then pointed out that he didn't even send the photo order sheet over to my house so I could order a package too. His response? "Go to the office and figure it out yourself!" Fuck! We were only together for 7 years and only married for 3 of them yet 5 years later ... yes, it's been over 5 years since we separated ... he is just as bitter - maybe even moreso. And to think that he was the one who told me he wanted a divorce and I should go file! I did the very next morning after those words came from his mouth!!! Anyway, that's not the point ... I fear for how our daughter could be affected. I also fear that I trusted him awhile back and shouldn't have ... when I shut down my start up company just over a year ago, I struggled financially for awhile - I am still getting back on my feet actually and make significantly less than I used to. I talked to him as things got bad and told him my financial situation honestly. I told him I could no longer afford to pay the monthly child support to him or I'd never be able pay my bills and feed my kids. (Oh, and yes, I have a second child who I had on my own after our divorce and I never went to court to have my payments to him reduced even though I could have based on that!!!) Anyway, at the time, I told him I couldn't afford to pay him but I also couldn't afford to hire an attorney to fight him in court. He told me that he would never want the mother of his child out on the street because it's not in his daughter's best interest, so he agreed to work with me. Well, needless to say, and I guess I shouldn't be surprised, that was thrown in my face tonight too. He says I owe him $5,400. Well, I really could kill him ... I have some opportunities right now that could put me back at the six figure plus salary I'm used to, but who the hell wants to fucking take them when a little weasle is waiting with his hand out!!! He retired when I filed for divorce. Then, when he blew threw the $250k he received in a lump sum alimony payment, he tried being a mortgage broker. When he was given 30 days to accomplish certain things or lose his job, he packed his desk immediately and didn't even try. Hell, by taking in a roommate and continuing to get child support from me, he did okay ... he is now running a carpet cleaning business but from what I hear his Jeep can be found parked outside of local bars any afternoon that I have our daughter ... Okay, I'm rambling - I'm sorry. I am in tears and also so angry that if he were here right now (without our daughter present of course) I would punch him in the mouth as hard as I could!!! So what do you think? Get an attorney with the money I don't have right now just to face any consequences of not paying him and having a verbal agreement up front and then get protection from the law by having the terms redone based on my current financial circumstances??? Oh, I will admit that before he hung up on me, I did totally lose it on him. He called me while I was on vacation this summer to ask me if I realized it was the 5 year anniversary of my filing for divorce ... I told him "No, but happy divorce!" Tonight I believe I told him something to the effect of "get therapy, get a hooker, and move on already!!!!!!' Oops ...

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Man, I'm so freaking bummed. Granted, this isn't as bad as my divorce, but still - a breakup is still a breakup, and post divorce breakups bring back all kinds of negative feelings. OK - sure, I called this off, but that doesn't make it any easier to sleep alone again. I have all of the same symptoms - depression, lack of appetite, lethargy. I'm trying to stay busy, but MAN - it's freakin JANUARY! And, of course, every day lasts like 60 hours. Sheesh! Relationships are TONS of work, and sometimes it's just better to throw in the towel. I know that. I know that this is the right decision for me, and yes, I knew it would suck. Now I'm a snivelling little jerk who called it off, and wants to cry about it. Can one of you please slap me back to my senses? This woman was NOT RIGHT! Still, being 'right' doesn't keep away the lonelies... Bummer.